Become a master of people skills. You stare at your colleague who is talking to the whole group, not listening to a word he’s saying. You try to be like him — someone who is interesting and always seems to have people around him. “Why can’t I interact with others like him?” You start fiddling with your phone …
Tag: Communication
6 Effective Communication Habits Most People Forget
Conversations are not about “winning.” They are about learning. Everybody wants to be granted the gift of feeling understood. Everybody wants to be listened to. Everybody wants someone who does not attempt to “help” or “make” the other person feel better. Who does not try to fix a problem or thinking about a solution. You …
I Am Slowly Learning That I Don’t Have To Be Aggressive To Communicate With Others
We are the ones who kill our communication. It is not the other person who makes us passive-aggressive. It is not the fault of our co-worker who made us retaliate in kind. It is not our partner’s fault that we have lost ourselves amid aggression. Aggression is an inside job. I’m not sure why, but …
Are You Too Afraid To Be Assertive?
Acting in disregard of the other person. Paying for it. Speaking without care for the feelings of others. Never communicating healthily. Arguing all the time. Hearing but not listening. Judging and passing blame quickly. Wanting to win every argument – even if it costs you that person. Being impulsive all the time. Using passive-aggressiveness as …
Conversation Vs Confrontation: Which One Are You Having?
· In confrontation: your intention is to attack, not to communicate. · In conversation: you have the intention of communicating, really communicating with the other person. To listen, to learn, and to understand the other person you have to have conversations – not confrontations. The only reason you feel like you are having difficulties understanding …
Which of these types of Communication do YOU have?
There are a lot of different types of communication. There’s communication that does not give the other person a single moment from the day. There’s communication that seems like your heart and your ears are involved in it, but actually they are not. Only your physical body is there, but you are not listening. There’s …
Tell a Story!(The Best Strategy for Communication)
Tell me something ——– Imagine for a minute that I am telling you about how you can improve yourself. I am telling you, you can do this and that —— . I am telling you what I know in this boring, lecture format. Would you be interested to listen to me? Would you remember my …
The Ultimate Recipes for Effective Communication!
If the person I am talking to in a conversation decides that he is the only one who needs to talk, if he leaves me no space for my part in the conversation, I know exactly what I would wish to do. I’d want that person to say what is on his mind without interruption. …
Inspirational Communications
Written by Banchi We sit with someone and we talk ceaselessly. We don’t give a chance for that person to have his/her say. We have failed in our communications. ————– We don’t respect people’s emotions. We try to control the flow of emotions coming from others. We don’t let them be. We have failed in …
A CASE FOR DISAGREEMENT IN A COMMUNICATION
Written by Banchi Most of us hate any kind of disagreement or conflict in our communications. The feeling is hard to express exactly, because for anything that we have too strongly attachments – we fight. But, we don’t fight for having more disagreements. We do the exact opposite. We run away from them as far …