For your work to thrive, there should be a spring in your step. “I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: ‘If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?’ And whenever the answer has been ‘No’ for too many …
Month: December 2019
My Top Ten Blog Posts of 2019
How Do You Love? 9 Red Flags In Relationships The Way My Grand-mom Loved Her Husband — Especially When Death Was lurking At Their Door Best Tip Ever: You can ONLY Change YOURSELF! It Is In Your Pain That You Find Your Greatest Potential The Perks of Being Emotionally Intelligent 14 Tips To Make Your …
I Hope You Are Devouring Life
I hope your heart is unsealed, taking in all the joys and sorrows of life. I hope whatever has or will happen in your life, no matter what chasms you cross, heights you scale, or how many people you love and are loved by, when all is said and done and you take that final …
Are You Ever Here?
A poem on the here and now. Read the poem here. To your inspirations, Banchi
Are You Looking For New Year Resolutions? Here Are 8 Ideas
For anyone who doesn’t know where to start. “Cheers to a new year and another chance for us to get it right.” — Oprah Winfrey 1. What is your story? Who are you? What do want to achieve in your life? What is something your heart desires? What is that something that keeps following you …
9 Red Flags In Relationships
Nobody can bulletproof a relationship. 1. Casually thrown hurtful words Words are like bullets. Once you pull the trigger, you can’t take them back. You can express remorse or say you are sorry, but that is not the same. We all make mistakes. We say hurtful things to the ones we love the most. But …
What Kind of a Person Are You Outside of Your Resume?
Why the traits missing from your job description beat the perfect resume You are not your resume. How do you communicate with your colleagues? How do you do your job? How do you act when no one is looking? Will your colleagues remember you when you leave? Will they miss you? Who are you outside …
For Anyone Who Feels Like Your Mind Won’t Ever Switch Off (Lesson on Mindfulness)
Let yourself take a minute to be mindful. our mind betrays you sometimes. Not just sometimes but most of the time. Why? Because it is thinking of a million things at the same time. It is organizing a million things at the same time. My to-do list for today. Emails to check. Calls to answer. …
This Is How You Plant Your Feet And Stand Rooted In Your Relationship
Building your relationship is a lot more important than having one. A colleague of mine, after one year marriage, told me she is getting a divorce. “Huh? What happened?” I asked. I was expecting monumental reasons like maybe he has cheated or she has or something serious enough to break their marriage. “We have grown …
We Don’t Get What We Want Because We Just Don’t Care Enough
You give time and effort for those things you care about. Our days are filled with the path to future skills, tasks and commitments we believe we can’t possibly take on. We have seduced ourselves into believing that we’re not born with the talent, or that the obstacles to doing the work are just too …