Month: October 2019

Self-Improvement

When Everything Hurts, Just Hold On

Hi there, I have my latest article that connected with many readers on the web. When Everything hurts, Just hold on …. Thoughts? If you have any feedback or even if you just want to say hello, go ahead and hit reply. All emails go directly to me and I try to do my best …

Self-Improvement

I Believe Working So Hard Should Not Come At The Price Of Your Life

Work matters but it should not come at the cost of your relationships. It sounds beautiful, doesn’t it? Making tons and tons of money. Having the money to do whatever the hell we want. The “Work hard” advice pushes people to find a magic bullet that is as fun as a theme park and pays …

Emotions

Happiness Is An Inside Job

Happiness

Happiness isn’t something that is deserved or earned from something outside yourself. Looking for happiness outside of you is like expecting the speaker of the ‘Happiness’ seminar to show you the sun you can’t otherwise seem to find. Even when it is right above you in the sky. You are only ripping yourself apart by …

Self-Improvement

Pain Is Like That Annoying Notification On Your Phone Telling You To Update Your Apps All The Time

Hi there, Today I have my latest article for you. Pain Is Like That Annoying Notification On Your Phone Telling You To Update Your Apps All The Time To your inspirations, Banchi

Self-Improvement

The Joy Of Change: Why Embracing Change Is The Way To Thrive

Don’t marry yourself to your idea or original plan. Look, I know it’s tempting to think that change is a scary thing. Like why would you pull out of your comfort zone? When it is so warm. When you can snuggle yourself inside your blankets of saturation and accomplishment. When it feels romantically satiating to be …

Self-Improvement

It Is Your Responsibility To Develop Your Potential The Best That You Can

Potential

“It’s your road and yours alone, others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.” — Rumi “Wooooohooo!” screamed the 8-year-old. “I’m king!” He was laughing so hard, an ear-to-ear grin plastered on his face. The lego he built is standing proudly on the floor. For all eyes to see. In the …

Self-Improvement

How To Use The 80/20 Law To Be Super Productive

Instead of improving everything (urgh, much effort), try to improve the tiny things that have a disproportionate impact. How many shoes do you have? 20% of your pairs will be worn 80% of the time. Want to work more efficiently? 20% of your time at work generates 80% of the value. Want more claps? 20% …

Self-Improvement

Facing Challenges Is The Key To Creating Success

Why challenges are the best things that happen to you. Socrates was called “an immoral corrupter of youth.” Beethoven handled the violin awkwardly. His teacher called him hopeless as a composer. Charles Darwin wrote in his biography “I was considered below the standard level by my family.” Walt Disney went bankrupt several times before he built …

Self-Improvement

Why You Need To Involve Your Heart To Find Fulfillment In Your Job

Watch out for boredom in your career if your heart is not involved. Imagine you have an uncle you don’t like. But you need him. Imagine you are new in town and he is the only one who can get you a job and his place is the only place you can stay for a …

Communication

6 Effective Communication Habits Most People Forget

Conversations are not about “winning.” They are about learning. Everybody wants to be granted the gift of feeling understood. Everybody wants to be listened to. Everybody wants someone who does not attempt to “help” or “make” the other person feel better. Who does not try to fix a problem or thinking about a solution. You …