Nobody can bulletproof a relationship. 1. Casually thrown hurtful words Words are like bullets. Once you pull the trigger, you can’t take them back. You can express remorse or say you are sorry, but that is not the same. We all make mistakes. We say hurtful things to the ones we love the most. But …
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This Is How You Plant Your Feet And Stand Rooted In Your Relationship
Building your relationship is a lot more important than having one. A colleague of mine, after one year marriage, told me she is getting a divorce. “Huh? What happened?” I asked. I was expecting monumental reasons like maybe he has cheated or she has or something serious enough to break their marriage. “We have grown …
What If You Care More?
Without caring, life is like the bottom of the ocean. Frigid and sunless. There are forces like love and caring and wonder and connection that can overpower anything you are going through. In every one of us, a light shines with the intensity of a thousand blazing suns. Continue reading …. To your inspirations, Banchi
How Lasting Love Looks Like
Lasting love allows you to get rid of the mask. A rock was weighing on my soul for the past few days. No light and a twinkle in my eyes. All because a colleague stole my idea and presented it to my boss. I curled up like a fetus and sobbed uncontrollably. My partner drew me …
Open Your Heart Until You Hear It Crack ( Love Lessons)
Love is the biggest risk you can ever take, but like all the most dangerous ventures, it comes with the biggest payout. “I love you,” he tells me after he tightly clenches the toy I gave him to his chest. After a long day at work, I have taken a taxi to take me to an …
Keep Building Your Relationship Boat So That It Doesn’t Get Blown Away To Smithereens (Love Lessons)
Good relationships are consciously designed. “Forever” is built on a million little “now’s” Relationships are built when you value what it is rather than what you imagine it to be. There is love in your silly attempts to make things better when all you imagine and wish for is grasslands and green pastures. You work on …
Give Your Loved Ones One Of The Greatest Gifts Of All: The Gift Of Your Attention And Presence (Building Love)
Grant your loved ones the gift of feeling understood. When I feel overcome by the urge to be inside my head and remain there when I am with loved ones, I remind myself of these things: Put your urge to speak aside to listen carefully, consciously. You can ogle your loved one to your heart’s …
Nothing Is Worth More Than Teaching Yourself You Can Trust You(Lessons on Self-love)
Honor the promise you make to yourself. Let’s pretend I have a secret. I believe I don’t trust myself and thus I operate under that assumption. I am convinced that I can no longer trust myself. Because of a failed relationship. Examples of how I don’t trust myself anymore look like: I am not kind …
Why You Find Yourself When You Start Looking Inside
“A mind in peace is heaven; a mind in pieces is hell.” – K. Bhujang Shetty Looking inside yourself is often as much an obligation to yourself more than anything else. It comes with a strong sense of gut from within to keep looking. To find out who you are – when no one is …
Do You Love Yourself?
Do you know what loving yourself or self-love looks like? It looks like: · You choosing to forgive the one who hurt you. Because you know that forgiveness is mostly for you. · You choosing to let go of hatred. Because you want to be free of this burden. It is not easy, mind you. …