By asking one heart-wrenching question. Will you still hate the person who soul-crushed you if that person ceases to exist tomorrow? Will your heart still shimmer with bitterness and hatred? Will you still like to see him burn? How to forgive a soul-crushing betrayal? To your inspirations, Banchi
Tag: Life Lessons
An Open Letter To Those Struggling To Quit Their Horrible Job
The job you hate might just change your life Do you feel that sensation in your heart? That’s the feeling part, the yearning part, cracking in its entirety. You’re in your office before anybody else arrives, and you’re the last one to leave. Not because you love your job but because your boss has a …
How To Be Courageously Wrong And Do What Your Heart Desires
Do this every day and you’ll become a more courageous person. Can I tell you a secret? I became a coward in my 20’s because all I did was what was “right”. “Right” according to my father and my professors who taught me to find a secure job and stick with it no matter what. …
11 Insights In Building Your Relationship From A Couple Whose Marriage Is 25-Year-Old
A healthy relationship is something you cultivate. They showed us how love does not waltz away with the currents of emotion. This month, the Institute I work for invited all employees to a 25-year-old marriage celebration. We enjoyed the delicious food but those of us who attended the dinner party got something more valuable. Insights …
Swipe Right On Starting Slow: How It Benefits You and How To Do It
A must-step for enjoying and maintaining your walk towards your goals The price of too much is pain and suffering. You keep banging your head against a wall. Wanting your blog to be successful right this minute. Rushing to write 2000 words on your first day of writing. Wanting to have 1000 email subscribers in …
The Boundaries That Help You Stop Being A Doormat
Your discomfort for the benefit of others is not healthy for either of you. I am no longer the “perfect woman”. Like a bee running towards honey, the need of others called out to me. When someone wanted anything from me I was compelled to provide it. Otherwise, they would not want to be with …
You Don’t Find Your Dream Career, You Build It
A career that energizes you instead of depleting you does not land on your lap. You build it. He had a lucrative career as a doctor or a researcher. And yet, he ditched everything for the unpredictable life of an author. He had graduated from Harvard Medical School. He had done a post-doctoral fellowship study …
Love Is Not Possessive
Healthy love wants your loved one to be happy, even if that happiness is with someone else. He ran away from me like he was escaping from a prison cell. We were in our 20’s and our love was epic. I loved him. He said he loved me. That meant he belonged to me. Earth …
How To Know When To Quit
Here are ways you can stop banging your head against a wall and instead walk through an open door. Yes, yes. Persevere. Endure. Push forward, steadfast. Don’t ever quit. Except, sometimes quitting is good for you. What is this effort and pride — without any reward — costing you? Are there amazing things you could be doing with the same amount …
Don’t Run From Vulnerability, Embrace It
You should stop trying to seal your heart. Remaining in emotional solitary confinement costs us. There is a cost to making your heart neatly sealed, safe from the joys and sorrows of life. I never heard my dad talk about his feelings. He never told me he loved me in words. He sucked it all …