The judge in your head stands in your way of achieving your dreams. I said yes to an offer that paid twice what I was earning before. I needed the money. But the job felt wrong. I lost my way when I listened to the judge in my head. I was supposed to be an expert on things …
Category: Self-Improvement
The Most Important Lesson We Can Learn From Dale Carnegie
It has to do with why he has created his best-seller book. Thirty-five years ago, I was one of the unhappiest lads in New York. I was selling motor-trucks for a living. I did not know what made a motor-truck run. That wasn’t all. I did not want to know. I despised my job. I …
14 Tips To Make Your Life Better and Simpler
Simplify your life. 1. Ask instead of assuming. A friend of mine told me last week that she almost made a terrible mistake in her relationship because she assumed that her boyfriend was cheating on her. It turned out that he was not. We make our life so complicated and difficult with our own hands. …
The Practice Rule: Practice Alone Is Not Enough
How you practice is more important than how often you practice. “If you want to achieve mastery, you must learn to practice deliberately.” — Ken Sterling There was once a woman who went to another city for an urgent work leaving her two teenage boys with an assignment: To take care of her garden. She had been taking …
Presence Is Far More Intricate and Rewarding Than Productivity
“Why the hell have you not finished the report I asked you? I have seen you arrive in the office at 7.00 am. What were you doing the whole morning?” Your boss is yelling at you. It is noon and you have not even started with your report. Why? Because you were not mentally present. …
People Are Successful When They Are Disciplined
If you ever wonder how to be successful. How it is that people bridge who they are now to who they want to be, the answer is discipline. I repeat the basics of many things in my life. Healthy living. Effective communication. Writing. Teaching what I know to my colleagues. Learning from others,. Preparing great …
When Everything Hurts, Just Hold On
Hi there, I have my latest article that connected with many readers on the web. When Everything hurts, Just hold on …. Thoughts? If you have any feedback or even if you just want to say hello, go ahead and hit reply. All emails go directly to me and I try to do my best …
I Believe Working So Hard Should Not Come At The Price Of Your Life
Work matters but it should not come at the cost of your relationships. It sounds beautiful, doesn’t it? Making tons and tons of money. Having the money to do whatever the hell we want. The “Work hard” advice pushes people to find a magic bullet that is as fun as a theme park and pays …
Pain Is Like That Annoying Notification On Your Phone Telling You To Update Your Apps All The Time
Hi there, Today I have my latest article for you. Pain Is Like That Annoying Notification On Your Phone Telling You To Update Your Apps All The Time To your inspirations, Banchi
The Joy Of Change: Why Embracing Change Is The Way To Thrive
Don’t marry yourself to your idea or original plan. Look, I know it’s tempting to think that change is a scary thing. Like why would you pull out of your comfort zone? When it is so warm. When you can snuggle yourself inside your blankets of saturation and accomplishment. When it feels romantically satiating to be …