Break the frivolous conversations
June 30, 2018 by Banchi
We see it as an annoyance or inconvenience,
Saying it is enough to give a nod or say hello.
The unvarnished reality is earnest conversation is inspirational,
And it is what makes life colorful.
Yet we get irritated when we are required to make conversations.
We struggle to have one while dreading doing it.
Because we are not enjoying the process,
We could not muster up much conversations.
Hence, we are faced with unfruitful conversations,
Where giving away and receiving back thoughts are not given a chance,
Or there is so much noise that no one had heard a thing.
We do this all the time,
Creating this cold, bitter divide among ourselves.
So, let us break the ice,
By having real conversations.
Just like we drink coffee or tea every day,
Let us start developing the habit of communicating to each other today.
Why don’t we be a well-meaning-soul?
Aspiring real talk among us.
Remember human beings are creatures of habit.
If we begin real conversation today,
It will be very hard at first.
But if we continue to do it,
It will get better, the second time, the third time.
Through time, it will even grow attractive to us,
And we will leave enough of an impression on others,
Thus becoming inspirational to them.
Don’t let habit and fear of argument or disagreement cost us to lose our human interaction.
Let us give serious dialogue a chance.
Much is accomplished,
When everyone really talks to one of its own habitually.
If you want to know what Competent conversationalists do , go to: Key Element in a conversation
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