Written by Banchi
As Marcus Aurelius said:
“You can leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say.”
There are a lot of things that determine our strength.
From within.
Here are the 5 main ones.
. Attitude = Your Results
If you don’t have the results you are looking for, it is because you do not have the attitude for it.
Check your attitude.
All results point to your attitude.
Fix your attitude and your results will follow.
- You will find your character in your HABITS
You will never have a strong character without having consistent daily habits.
What you do everyday develops your character.
This does not mean that you won’t make mistakes, that you won’t stray from your habits.
But you get back on your daily habits soon.
You choose your habits every time.
They, after all, form your character.
- It’s Not About your external environment, It’s About You
You can live in a convenient environment and still complain about your circumstances.
It doesn’t matter where you live.
It doesn’t matter what kind of environment you live in.
What matters is YOU.
What you do to change your environment.
Your environment does not have control over you.
Unless you allow it.
You have the power to change your environment, regardless of its condition.
Your power is within you.
- Get rid of Artificial Boundaries
There’s a common misconception in most people that things or people are preventing them from pursuing their dreams.
Let me make this clear —
If you always state ‘Something’ is preventing you to pursue your purpose in life, then you have created an artificial boundary around yourself.
Artificial boundaries do not exist.
They are only in your head.
They must be destroyed if you want to get moving.
You are the reason who is preventing yourself from achieving anything.
You must learn to let go of your boundaries.
- Ignore Negative People or Give them a red card
The golden rule of life is simple.
You become the people you surround yourself with.
Negative people abort your dreams, wishes, interests and purpose in life.
Choose to stay away from negative people.
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To your Inspirations,
Banchi
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It has been and still is my wish to discard negative people off my life. However, I always found them so close to me, closer than they used to be. Ergo, the concern is not in distancing people away from us. The concern is on how to get them away from us.