Simplify your life.
1. Ask instead of assuming.
A friend of mine told me last week that she almost made a terrible mistake in her relationship because she assumed that her boyfriend was cheating on her.
It turned out that he was not.
We make our life so complicated and difficult with our own hands. By assuming rather than asking questions. We think we know everything there is to know because we said so (it is our assumption that is making us knowledgeable on all things).
Instead of assuming whatever you’re assuming, try asking. Make your life easier by clear communications, not by assumptions.
To your inspirations,
Banchi
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